Tara Star Dancer Weavings   •   February 5, 2021

Maybe you’re not tired. Listen I know you’re not getting enough quality zzz and you are likely operating on top of a huge sleep deficit. My point though is that popping sleeping pills or other ways of forcing sleep are not going to give you the sweet release you are hungry for.

I was recently at a women’s event where it was clear that it wasn’t tiredness we were suffering from, but rather an exhaustion from squashing down our power, anger, bliss and zest. We’re chronically under-blissed.

As humans we are an expression of energy in a verisimilar pattern, which is a fancy word that means we look a certain way and behave in pretty much prescribed ways, but it is not necessarily the whole picture or close to the truth of who (or what) we are. So then we operate as and within a world that is held together, another verisimilar appearance, by our shared beliefs that are mostly invisible. The analogy could of a clear gold fish bowl that we swim around in mostly habitual ways. Bob, bob, eat, poop, bob. It’s survival and some people have fancier bowls than others, but it is still much much smaller than what is possible. This gold fish bowl itself is actually bobbing in an infinite sea of creative potentials and ecstatic energy that is right here and now.

We are starving for group experiences of bliss, that are safe and conscious and healing. We are starving for let go and abandon. We are starving for ecstatic energy and the safe places to be fully surrendered into Her – also known as Shakti, Seiki, N’um, Holy Spirit, quintessence, chi… Life Force energy.

Tai chi, chigung and yoga all aim to release and purify us from our habitual holding patterns and to free us into greater energy. Acupuncture and massage as well as many other bodywork do the same. Meditation is also a very powerful way to witness and release patterns. My work is similar with a more sexy witchy focus on cultivating massive turn on and bliss.

When we’ve experienced a peak of turn on and bliss, excitement that is full of sacred metaphor, supersaturated into every cell of your being, guess what? Rest comes naturally! It sounds sexual and it is, in the way that life is a dance of yin and yang, of primordial opposites, that are constantly dancing… making poetic love.

In my group classes, we play! Unfortunately because of our jaded culture, play is considered a waste of time. But think of a concert violinist or chess “player” or an actor in a play. They play their art all day. For social animals, like humans, play is how we figure out complex situations. All the world’s a stage! In my work by playing with movement, archetypes, inspired metaphor and creative visualizations, we slip past the glass confines of the small goldfish bowl to be swept into oceans of fresh and enlivening possibilities, that are beyond our normal ways of relating to ourselves, each other and the world. We hold a passionate intention to be available for the highest possible expression and co-create a safe mutually held space of deep recognition as divine reflections living as all this shimmering world. We shake up normal and are available for the Mystery.

So then the hidden patterns of limiting beliefs and behaviors, bubble up to the surface where we can consciously see and relate to them. But we don’t identify as the limitations or habits, instead we stay anchored as and in the infinite SEA of love that embraces all. The biggest part of ourselves. Our little self and our big self get a chance to see each other. So there is a kind of friction that melts the frozen blocks, pops the corks and frees us out of stale habits. Like believing we’re tired all the time. And what’s in this experience? Ecstasy. Infinite energy. Worlds of vibrational medicine and beauty that nourishes the soul. FUN! Deep healing and profound compassion.

So maybe you’re not tired. Maybe the ways we are taught to live and behave and see the world is exhausting. Maybe we are using up all our energy to try to hold back the flow of life force. We are so much more than we are normally allowed to be, and more than anyone can imagine and you need a dose of Bliss so you remember who and what you really are!

What’s Sexy Sacred Witchy Fun? It’s a sacred, sensual and transformational mystical path for women’s empowerment and spiritual awakening. SSWF loves bellydance, voice, drumming and movement meditations as delightful ways to embody our Bliss. Let’s wiggle out of unnecessary suffering and the heavy armor of conditioning with sexy sacred witchy fun!

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